The Feminized Male Wife!!

Tuesday, February 28, 2012 The Feminized Male Wife!!


Today's posting actually comes from a Posting at a Yahoo Group back in March of 2009. It was written by a Feminine Man, named Patty, describing his Life as a Wife to a strong Woman. I hope you enjoy his story.

Hi Carola and everybody, Thanks for your best wishes. I have not been participating in the group for a long time, I know. Yes, I did get married, in June 2007. My spouse's name is Cam Schneider. Yes, I took her surname and I also proudly adopted the title of "Mrs." Since June 2007 I have been "Mrs. Patty Schneider." Both Cam and I considered it very importantfor me to change my name. Even though name-changing has lost some of its symbolism in the wider world, we both consider it a way to show the world that she is the unquestioned head of our household, and I belong to her. I know it does not sound "politically correct, but we DON'T see our marriage as a "partnership of equals." We believe one partner wears the pants and dominates, and in our case that partner is the female. Before getting married we lived together, and at that time we both participated in the old "Feminine Men -Empowered Women" group. After that we both dropped out of the Internet scene. Cam does not want to do any more group participation, but I still enjoy it. As I said, Cam and I were living together for a while before we got married. She knew I really wanted to get married but for a while she would not make the commitment, even though we had a wonderful life together. Before getting involved with mes he had always lived as a very butch lesbian, always with very femme partners. She eventually realized that what she really wanted was not a femme woman but a very femme man. Any way after some months of living together she took me out one evening to a very nice dinner. She even put on a tie, which she hard ly ever did back then (now she does more often). I wore a stunning blue silk dress. At that dinner she proposed to me and gave me an engagement ring. I was so excited and so overcome withe motion I actually started crying. We had a small private wedding, officiated by a female minister (also very butch looking).Our best friends are a lesbian couple. One of them is very butchand masculine like Cam, and the other one is very feminine and wears dresses. The masculine woman was Cam's "best woman" and the feminine one was one of my bridesmaids. The other bridesmaid was a feminine male crossdresser friend of mine, very pretty. The bridesmaids wore pink dresses, and of course I wore a long white wedding dress. Cam andher best woman wore men's suits with ties. At our request, the minister pronounced us "woman and wife" and announcedus as "Ms. and Mrs. Cam Schneider." Of course it was the happiest day of my life. Since then I have been a full-time housewife. I clean, do laundry, grocery shopping, etc. and of course cook. I always have dinner ready when Cam gets home, and I serve her. She has commented once in a while that she feels a little guilty when I serve her while she sits back and does nothing, but I actually enjoy doing that for her. I want to do it. Clothing-wise, I wear dresses or skirts exclusively. Cam has never seen me in pants and does not want to. She is only attracted to a very feminine image. A lot of crossdressers say they "love" to wear dresses but I will tell you that when you do it every single day, it gets hard sometimes. On the one hand, you do get used to it, so it is second nature. On the other hand, it is a lot of work to put on makeup every day and always look pretty, as millions of straight women already know. I usually get up about forty minutes before Cam does, and put on minimal makeup--just lipstick and mascara, as well as a very casual dress or skirt, to serve her breakfast. Usually I wear very cheap pantyhose or sometimes no nylons at all, and casual women's shoes with low heels. I usually stay dressed that way to do my housework. But about an hour before Cam comes home, I put on full makeup and change into a nice dress, nice pantyhose, and high heels to serve her dinner. I also wear a nice dress if I am going out anywhere during the day. Because of the economy being the way it is, I may have to find a part-time job outside the home (if I can). Cam is not happy about that but realizes it may be necessary so we can save more money. But she absolutely forbids me to take any job unless I can go to work wearing a dress. She won't allow any job that makes me wear male clothes -- and I don't want such a job either. That requirement will obviously make things even more difficult. For now I am still a full-time housewife.Overall, we are very happy together. I am too much of a lady to talk about sex in great detail, but let's just say that Cam is the dominant partner. Remember Carola's picture of the "right position for a man?" That gives you an idea of my position. Frankly, Cam has a big appetite, and of course I consider it my duty to satisfy her. But I can tell you it caused some painful problems for me at times. I went t oa female doctor who knows about our lifestyle and withher advice and treatment the problems are pretty much fixed nowand it is finally very easy and comfortable for Cam to makelove to me.Cam and I are really looking for other couples like us to one  work with and be friends with. But we are not having much success finding such couples. People on the Internet who say they are interested in role reversal are mostly fantasy seekers, almost all male crossdressers with no real commitmentto the lifestyle. We really want to find other people whoare really LIVING this lifestyle. We are corresponding with one couple in California that we believe are for real, but we never actually met them.